Ginger cat sitting on a herringbone parquet floor, sniffing a collar laid in front of it next to a few treats

Getting your cat used to a collar: the method, and the right fit

To get a cat used to a collar, work in short daily sessions at home: let it smell the collar, put it on for a few minutes with a reward, then build up the time. The fit matters as much as the method: two fingers flat between the strap and the neck, no more and no less.

How do you get a cat used to a collar, step by step?

Getting a cat used to a collar works in small stages, somewhere calm, each stage linked to something it enjoys. According to the Ontario SPCA, the animal welfare charity for the Canadian province of Ontario, a stressed cat resists more: pick a quiet moment, let it sniff and play with the collar on the floor first, reward it as soon as it wears the collar, then repeat every day for a little longer.

StageWhat you doMove on when…
1. The collar on the floorLeave it near its favourite spot, with a treat beside itIt sniffs it without backing away
2. A familiar scentRub a soft cloth on its cheeks, then on the collarThe collar no longer intrigues it
3. A few minutes onPut it on, play or reward, then take it offIt stops trying to shake it off
4. Longer sessionsAdd a little time each day, always while you are thereIt eats, plays and sleeps in it

The bell is an easy lever. On the Pelux breakaway cat collar, it hangs on a split ring and comes off: start without it, so your cat gets to know the strap without a jingle at every step. You can decide later whether it stays.

How do you measure your cat's neck before choosing a collar?

Measuring your cat's neck takes a minute and decides whether a collar can fit. Do it before you order, with your cat relaxed:

  1. Take a soft tape measure, or a piece of string you then measure flat.
  2. Go round the middle of the neck, where the collar will sit, without squeezing or flattening the fur.
  3. Slide two fingers flat under the tape: the length you read with those two fingers is the fitted collar length.
  4. Compare it with the range of the collar you have in mind.

The Pelux collar adjusts from 22 to 32 cm with a sliding adjuster, according to the supplier, and its strap is 1 cm wide. If your measurement falls outside that range, this collar is not for your cat, even if it comes close. The product page does not say whether the range includes the two fingers: near either end, do not take the chance.

For a kitten, the product page gives no age: only the measurement decides. Under 22 cm with the two fingers, and this collar will not adjust small enough.

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Cat collar too tight or too loose: how do you get the fit right?

The right fit for a cat collar lets two fingers slide flat between the strap and the neck. RSPCA Australia gives a similar rule: one large or two small fingers between the collar and the fur. It advises checking the collar's condition and fit every week.

On the Pelux collar, you slide the adjuster, then check with your two fingers. The signs to watch for:

  • Too tight: your two fingers will not go in flat, the fur stays marked when you take the collar off, your cat scratches its neck constantly.
  • Too loose: the collar spins freely, slides up towards the ears or slips over the head; the Ontario SPCA says it should be snug enough not to slip over the head.
  • Well fitted: two fingers flat, and the collar stays put when your cat lowers its head to eat.

A cat that scratches non-stop or keeps a mark is not "getting used to it": take the collar off. If the skin is red, sore or losing fur, show it to your vet before putting the collar back on.

What if your cat refuses the collar or takes it off?

A cat that shakes its head or paws at its collar the first few times is reacting to a new sensation. Distract it with play and go back a stage if you need to.

Your own outlook counts. In a six-month study of 538 cats, reported by Ohio State University, owners of 56.3% of the cats found the collar was tolerated better than expected, and cats kept their collar less often when their owner doubted from the start that they would accept it.

If it manages to get the collar off, the Ontario SPCA advises putting it back on, checking the fit again, then rewarding your cat. But some cats will never take to one: in the Ohio study, a cat whose collar fell off and had to be refitted several times was less likely to keep it on to the end. To walk your cat, you need a harness anyway, from our harnesses and leads. The method to get your cat used to a harness follows the same small-steps logic, and our guide to harness or collar for a cat sorts out the two uses.

Frequently asked questions

Can a cat wear its collar at night?

Once it is used to it, yes: a safety collar is meant for everyday wear. The Ohio study advises watching the cat closely for the first few days: while it is still learning, take the collar off whenever you cannot keep an eye on it, night-time included.

Should you cut off the spare end of the strap?

The Ontario SPCA advises trimming long strap ends once the collar is fitted. On the Pelux collar, which adjusts with a sliding adjuster, wait until the fit has stayed the same for several weeks, and always leave enough to loosen it, especially on a young cat that is still growing.

When should you put the tracker in the collar's case?

One new thing at a time: start with the collar on its own, bell off and case empty. The case is riveted to the strap and stays in place. Once your cat wears the collar without paying it any attention, slip in your own AirTag-compatible tracker, which does not come with the collar.

Key takeaways

  • Getting a cat used to a collar takes short daily sessions, somewhere calm, each one paired with a reward.
  • Measure your cat's neck, two fingers flat under the tape, before you buy: the Pelux breakaway cat collar adjusts from 22 to 32 cm, according to the supplier.
  • While your cat gets used to it, readjust the sliding loop as soon as two flat fingers no longer slip under the strap, then check it every week, more often on a kitten.
  • A cat that scratches non-stop or keeps a mark should have its collar taken off; if the skin is irritated, your vet decides what comes next.
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